tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post1322111525488250280..comments2023-09-06T06:06:45.413-04:00Comments on Harts Beat: Let Fallen Angels LiePamela Zydelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00455065276657597689noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-25416239946295212452012-06-22T20:13:16.099-04:002012-06-22T20:13:16.099-04:00Hrhjody: My husband would ignore me or just walk a...Hrhjody: My husband would ignore me or just walk away! It would tick me off even more! But NOW I'm SO much better too. When I feel myself getting mad I do the walking away until I'm cool-headed enough for a civil discussion. <br /><br />Thanks for stopping by! Pamela D Harthttp://www.hartsbeat.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-31222051796478169122012-06-20T11:23:01.467-04:002012-06-20T11:23:01.467-04:00I know this is NOT funny as I sit here reading and...I know this is NOT funny as I sit here reading and laughing....Hence CIRCUMSTANTIAL EVIDENCE! I truely DO wonder how many Innocent people are behind bars! <br /><br />I know that when I was younger I had a very bad temper.....Very bad! Over the years my husband would ignore my tantrums. Like he always said, "You can't fight with no one". When I was calm, we would then have a civil disccussion. It has been a long road, AND I AM a better person. Don't get me wrong, the hairs on the back of my neck still stand up in anger, but then I quickly squelch them, and have a good cry! :)Hrhjodynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-69507654026552280202012-06-19T23:54:44.572-04:002012-06-19T23:54:44.572-04:00Ron, I really didn't think I could've told...Ron, I really didn't think I could've told this story without interjecting some humor because after the fact, it is hilarious. But my poor husband had headaches for months, I think he really had a concussion! <br /><br />I know what you mean about embracing our flaws. We can't deny them, they will just haunt us. We need to acknowledge them so that we can conquer them. When people deny their flaws, they are doing themselves a grave injustice, unless they just don't care, and that's fine too. I did care though....I wanted to change and be the person I KNEW was hidden deep inside beneath all the garbage.<br /><br />OMG, what you said Sharon Stone said makes perfect sense! Our biggest challenges ARE our best gifts! Because they DO teach us, IF we are willing to learn! We need to be OPEN first and I WAS!<br /><br />((YOU))Pamela D Harthttp://www.hartsbeat.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-55550033794583779062012-06-19T23:46:40.548-04:002012-06-19T23:46:40.548-04:00Bill, it was one of many pivotal points. What'...Bill, it was one of many pivotal points. What's really amazing is I barely recognize the person I once was. The best part, though, is I like who I have grown into. Pamela D Harthttp://www.hartsbeat.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-37915244542351791802012-06-19T23:44:27.976-04:002012-06-19T23:44:27.976-04:00Grammy, I'll think on a "how-to" for...Grammy, I'll think on a "how-to" for releasing inner anger and slaying dragons, it's not an easy 1-2-3 process. It's been a long road but worth the journey and one I think I'll be on for the rest of my life-- I'm a "work in progress". However, I'm willing to share what I've been through if it can helps others.Pamela D Harthttp://www.hartsbeat.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-26615342105357375572012-06-19T22:43:43.631-04:002012-06-19T22:43:43.631-04:00I for one w0uld like some pointers on how you let ...I for one w0uld like some pointers on how you let go of your inner anger and slayed said demons. I could use lessons, as I'm struggling myself with demons, dragons and the occasional troll. Grammynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-15199480384723281042012-06-19T21:20:34.586-04:002012-06-19T21:20:34.586-04:00Pam, You bared your heart and soul in this post. ...Pam, You bared your heart and soul in this post. I was completely entranced reading from beginning to end. It must have been a pivotal point in your life?Bill-The Authentic Lifehttp://www.living-authentically.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726094983703031160.post-62452809096927608142012-06-19T19:40:52.624-04:002012-06-19T19:40:52.624-04:00Pam, I adore this story because you've managed...Pam, I adore this story because you've managed to share it with both honest introspect and humor.<br /><br />While reading this, as soon as you mentioned that it was an angel, I thought....WOW, it was like your guardian angel was giving you a 'sign' a 'lesson', and you learned it!<br /><br />"I was who I was and how I acted before I confronted my demons and slaughtered my dragons cannot be undone only looked upon now with eyes of experience."<br /><br />As I've shared with you before, you and I are very similar in our personalities. It seems we have/had the same passionate temper because I too was a BIG thrower of things when I got angry. OMG...I could tell you stories that would curl your hair! I too was filled with impatience and anger. And for years, I tried pushing it away in an effort to change myself. However, it wasn't until I actually embraced it, did I change.<br /><br />It's ironic that you posted this today because last night I watched an interview online with Sharon Stone (who I now have a much deeper respect for), in which she said that it's things that we think are wrong ourselves (the demons), the things we keep trying to push away, the things that are our big challenges about ourselves, are the same things that are our biggest 'gifts' because they are the things that are our greatest teachers. But we first have to own and embrace them.<br /><br />And I believe she's right.<br /><br />Thanks so much for sharing this post, my friend.<br /><br />Excellent!<br /><br />((((( You ))))<br /><br />XRonhttp://www.triloquist.netnoreply@blogger.com